Every third day, in our #EveryThreeDays campaign, I write about a woman killed by a man. Previously in this campaign, which started on May 2nd 2021, we have remembered 71 women, the last being trans woman Rita Hester.

Today we remember Barbara Baraniecka, 43, who Cezary Sobiewski murdered after Barbara dumped him. Sobiewski had a history of drunkenness, and Barbara told him four weeks earlier that their relationship was over, but he was not prepared to accept her decision.

Things came to a head in November 2015 with Sobiewski becoming violent, repeatedly knifing the mother-of-two in the neck, then leaving her dead body in the bedroom whilst carrying on drinking. After a few hours, Barbara’s daughter, Dzesika came home, discovering her limp body in the bedroom while Sobiewski sat quietly downstairs drunk.

Fearing he would attack her, she ran from the house and a neighbour called 999. Sobiewski was arrested immediately and pleaded guilty at his trial and was sentenced to life in prison. 

In a statement, Dzesika said:

“My mum was everything to me and my sister. We have lost mommy, friend and our world’s guardian. It is so hard to live without her, our whole life is upside down now and we live with sadness day by day. We loved her so much and we miss her. We do not see anything positive in our future.”

Barbara Baraniecka

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(Pronouns - she/her) - Steph Richards is a 73-year-old 'post-op' trans woman with a Gender Recognition Certificate and works as a human rights activist. She was the elected Women's and LGBT Officer at Portsmouth Labour Party 2021 - 2024, CEO of Translucent.Org.UK, winner of the LGBT Organisation of the Year at the National Diversity Awards in 2022, co-founder of Women's Action Network (Portsmouth) and a volunteer at a Women's health charity. Steph was shortlisted as a "Gender Role Model" at the National Diversity Awards in 2025. Steph has been platformed live on BBC Radio 4 three times, including Women's Hour. She has also appeared on Times Radio, LBC Radio, GB News and Channel 4 News. In 2023, Steph debated trans human rights at an American university event alongside Harvard biologist and author Carole Hooven, PhD. Steph (an intersectional feminist) is passionate about the inclusion and acceptance of trans people in society. She advocates for women in prison, specifically pregnant women and calls out the mounting concern that abortion rights are at risk in the UK. She was the recipient of an Inspirational Women of Portsmouth Award in March, 2023.

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